Our bodies hold sensations from our past
She stands with her hands in her pockets to shield them from the cold, and wears a navy blue beanie. She watches her friend who is sitting on the sand, deep in conversation, with a large brown horse who is lying down beside her.
When asked how she feels, she responds “I’m jealous.” And the question is posed “but what’s the sensation in the body?”
You see, jealousy is a brain word. Jealousy describes sensations that we feel in the body, and based on life experiences we have learned to apply certain words to various sensations.
But what is that sensation? Without her describing to me by way of shape, colour, movement, size etc, I have no way of understanding what she is experiencing. Nobody else can ever know what is going on inside of us at any given moment.
We are all shaped through life experiences
At some time prior, this person has had at least one experience where the same sensations in the body have arisen. And for whatever reasons, at that time it was not safe for the energy of this sensation to be fully expressed, allowed to run to completion. At that time she was thrown into a state of overwhelm, an inability to cope. And so here the sensation presents again, offering the opportunity for full release – and healing.
Releasing what we no longer need to hang onto
As I have done in hundreds of prior sessions as a trauma-informed somatic practitioner, we work with and release this trapped energy, this residue of ‘jealousy’, and the person is then asked again “So how do you now feel?” The response that comes is very different from before. “It is beautiful, it is amazing, my friend has this magical connection with horses”. There is no trace of jealousy in her voice; her body language, her facial expression have all changed to those of wonder and compassion.
Trapped E-Motions
We are so shaped by our society, by our life experiences and by the people around us at different stages of development that we end up being weighed down by many, many trapped energies. They can dramatically affect how we show up in the world. They sit in our body, our subconscious, until such time as we choose to explore and release them. They are the cause of repeat situations in life, repeat difficult/challenging situations where they show up in an attempt to be felt, to be heard and to be allowed to run to completion.
In his now famous book ‘The Body Keeps The Score’, Bessen van der Kolk speaks of how overwhelming experiences (aka traumas) affect the development of brain, mind and body, and how the residue of unfinished energetic imprints get stuck in the physical body until we are able to process and release them.
What about you?
What patterns in life do you carry? Do you feel anxious but you don’t really know why? Do you feel overly sad at inappropriate times? What if overwhelm hits and you just don’t know which way to turn, what to do, next step to take.
Once we become aware that healing is possible, we can learn how to embrace trapped energies, we can learn how to listen to what our body is saying to us.
With appropriate support, we can explore and heal naturally, without medication, which realistically only acts as a band-aid, suppressing and numbing. Do you really want to feel numb, or be numbed? Do you want to present to the world as someone not true to yourself?
Are you truly YOU? Or are you ready to experience a vibrant aliveness that allows your true self, your soul, to express authentically?
Non-judgemental, safe space
Our Equine Therapy provides a non-judgmental space where participants can work through their issues with the supportive presence of a trauma-trained somatic practitioner as well as the horses. It’s the perfect complementary approach to more traditional therapy modalities.
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